thinkers like to assert vs feelers prefer to go with the flow. Introverts vs extroverts. women can be more assertive in some areas (aka swipe left). It’s har

thinkers like to assert vs feelers prefer to go with the flow. Introverts vs extroverts. women can be more assertive in some areas (aka swipe left). It’s hard to be assertive when you don’t know what you want , or you don’t know which course of action maximizes what you want… she didn’t know what she wanted more (be helpful to her colleague, or do her work). Or she didn’t know what would be better for her career… altruism frequently involves this problem. practice asserting to pay the restaurant bill… (what’s more valuable ? The good will gained or the money lost ?)