I mean I've read some of the Aristotle mentioned, and I think it's a very and unservingly individualistic approach. The bits that I read took into account your

I mean I've read some of the Aristotle mentioned, and I think it's a very and unservingly individualistic approach. The bits that I read took into account your effects on others, but not others' effects on you, aside from the mention of teaching. If we accept that individual virtues are the determining factors of morality, we can't really ask any questions about the effect of others on my own morality, which, in my opinion and experience, is pretty important too. So yeah, be assertive and all, but Aristotle feels like the wrong place to root an analysis of inter-personal interaction.