There's a big difference between living in the same country as people I don't share deep values with and actively seeking out their company. I sincerely doubt

There's a big difference between living in the same country as people I don't share deep values with and actively seeking out their company. I sincerely doubt most hn readers are seeking active companionship with someone from rural Alabama. Of course I have shared values with almost every american. That small set of values is just not enough for deep friendship even if it's enough for civic patriotism.