Did anyone else grow up with an OK family life, but barely stay in touch with their parents? And they don't seem that fussed about it either? I appreciate what

Did anyone else grow up with an OK family life, but barely stay in touch with their parents? And they don't seem that fussed about it either? I appreciate what everyone's saying but it seems like "maybe once every few months" is a fine contact cadence for everyone involved in my case. We must be a bit on the spectrum or something.