There’s that saying “to truly love someone you have to be willing to let them go”. Which is really really hard. Raising my kids is my purpose. But when they’r

There’s that saying “to truly love someone you have to be willing to let them go”. Which is really really hard. Raising my kids is my purpose. But when they’re adults they will make their own decisions about our relationship as equals. Anything less would be conditional love: I appear to only love them conditioned on something. Like keeping me from being lonely or fulfilling me in some way. Thats not their job.