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I've noticed the same pattern - people are usually very polite if you address them - and it makes me more reluctant to strike up a conversation with nearby stra
by bittercynic 5y ago
I've noticed the same pattern - people are usually very polite if you address them - and it makes me more reluctant to strike up a conversation with nearby strangers. If they really don't want to interact with me they might not give me a clear signal, and I might be causing extended discomfort for someone even though they are acting like they want to continue the interaction.
I'm trying to get smarter about reading social signals, but for now I just try to make sure not to corner people. I will not attempt to interact with you unless I can see that you have an easy way to get away from the interaction.
Are there classes or something available for people who know they're lacking in social skills and want to get better?
- 0xcde4c3db 5y ago> Are there classes or something available for people who know they're lacking in social skills and want to get better? I've looked for something like this before, and haven't really found a good option. The main things people tend to bring up are: 1) Toastmasters. This is is adult-oriented and widely available, but is largely for people who want to improve at public speaking and "leadership". 2) Social skills training. In principle this is exactly the thing you're looking for, but the field is heavily focused on working with children and adolescents; genuine resources for adults (as opposed to self-help / content marketing fluff) seem scarce.
- nazgulnarsil 5y agoImprov!
- renewiltord 5y agoI genuinely don't know. I had close friends teach me how to act like a human being.