Agreed, especially after reading this post https://livingafi.com/post-fire-relationship-disconnect/ https://livingafi.com/post-fire-relationship-disconnect/ It

Agreed, especially after reading this post https://livingafi.com/post-fire-relationship-disconnect/ https://livingafi.com/post-fire-relationship-disconnect/ It's a dialog he is creating as a summary of many discussions. In his version of the story they both communicate well and seem to hear each other, but not agree on life. Then his takeaway is that she didn't hear him, which was an odd take.