Come as you are. It is sold as a book about sex but it’s a (pop-) psychology book. Compassionate, practical, empowering. Punished by rewards by Alfie Kohn. The

Come as you are. It is sold as a book about sex but it’s a (pop-) psychology book. Compassionate, practical, empowering. Punished by rewards by Alfie Kohn. The amount of research showing that incentivizing people kills internal motivation is… staggering.