> This would predict that being tactless and accepting tactlessness from others are strongly correlated. This is because most of us will try to understand othe

> This would predict that being tactless and accepting tactlessness from others are strongly correlated. This is because most of us will try to understand other people from their own perspectives. This is the case even when one tries to put themselves in other's shoes -- it often fall short because one simply doesn't have other's shoes.