3 ms·
> Given the different ways silence is used in China (a listening culture) and Canada (a speaking culture) ... I observed the opposite. When I speak Chinese to
by nayuki 5y ago
> Given the different ways silence is used in China (a listening culture) and Canada (a speaking culture) ...
I observed the opposite. When I speak Chinese to Chinese people in Toronto, Canada - friends/family/business - I find that they speak faster, are more likely to interrupt or talk over me, and tend to push their viewpoints instead of waiting to hear yours.
I've interacted with Chinese vs. Canadian bankers, salespeople, doctors, etc., and the contrast is noticeable for me.
This isn't a statement about whether one way is better (e.g. I find the Chinese are more straightforward with their intentions, whereas Canadians leave more things implied); this is just an observation about tendencies.
- booleandilemma 5y agoIncidentally, one of the most high-strung, anxious people I’ve ever met was a Buddhist. There was nothing Zen-like about this person.
- billyjobob 5y agoThat makes sense if he was a convert to Buddhism, because Buddhism in the West is marketed as a treatment for anxious people.
- BadInformatics 5y agoYeah, this is true in China as well IME. Perhaps TFA is extrapolating from experiences in other East Asian countries?