Very true. I didn’t want a child, my wife wanted nothing more. I was afraid I would screw up, worried my self-centered life would end, that I couldn’t love a ch

Very true. I didn’t want a child, my wife wanted nothing more. I was afraid I would screw up, worried my self-centered life would end, that I couldn’t love a child. I had those thoughts until the moment I held my first daughter. Now I can neatly divide my life into 28 years before I had children and the different person I became after. It was like a switch flipped that day, and I never looked back with regret.