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Why? That just seems like a way to accumulate baggage. It seems more efficient to admit failure and move on.
by wheels 18y ago
Why? That just seems like a way to accumulate baggage. It seems more efficient to admit failure and move on.
- wallflower 18y agoI think my definition of project varies from yours. For instance, battling my shyness and/or my tendency to be a wallflower are my life-long projects. Individual experiences are softened as failures, the more it occurs. And I'm the first to say, I avoid failure. It's easy to feel like giving up after asking a really good dancer to Salsa dance and having a brain freeze and reverting to the basic step and/or seeing her give you a bored look while doing basic moves, but I really intend to become a really good dancer. It's easy to feel like turning down an invitation to go out after a long week (but accept all invitations) and its good to put yourself into uncomfortable social situations (sometimes). "Success is the process of living your life working toward worthy goals. And here is the brain tweak: once you reach your goals, you are no longer a success! You must set new goals!"