> Ignore naughty bits entirely! Everyone fixates on the naughty bits. Sheesh. Sex literally is about "naughty bits". That is what it is, by definition. That is

> Ignore naughty bits entirely! Everyone fixates on the naughty bits. Sheesh. Sex literally is about "naughty bits". That is what it is, by definition. That is the information that we go about disclosing to all and sundry. > Imagine a 5'6" male. Imagine a 5'6" female. Imagine them wearing the same outfit. Do they look, stereotypically, different enough that you could tell which one is standing in front of you with high accuracy? If your system of identification depends on assessing people's (secondary) sex characteristics, it's pathetically bad.