Not really. "We are going to trust you to go into war - a stressful situation - and know who to kill and who not to kill, if need be... but no, we definitely w

Not really. "We are going to trust you to go into war - a stressful situation - and know who to kill and who not to kill, if need be... but no, we definitely won't let you sit at home and drink a beer, even if it is with your parents. That is criminal" It is pretending to treat someone like a mature adult, with all of the responsibilities, but refusing to allow beer and bars, which are common recreational and social habits in the culture.