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Desperate Measures

23 points by Vigier 5y ago

chartpath 5y ago
And we still don't have a male contraceptive pill.
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- toomuchtodo 5y ago
  Put some semen in cryostorage [1] and get a vasectomy. ~$1000 all in, no oopsies, and your tissue quality is preserved at your age of storage (with a small risk of loss of storage over time). The vasectomy alone is only a few hundred bucks (with insurance; without, max cost is $1500) if having kids isn’t your thing, and widely available. I recommend it to everyone who will listen (the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 is $233,610, per child [2]). Median lifetime earnings in the US are $1.7 million [3]. [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Semen_cryopreservation https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Semen_cryopreservation [2] https://fns-prod.azureedge.net/sites/default/files/crc2015_March2017_0.pdf https://fns-prod.azureedge.net/sites/default/files/crc2015_M... [3] https://cew.georgetown.edu/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/collegepayoff-complete.pdf https://cew.georgetown.edu/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/colleg...
- bedobi 5y ago
  Male contraceptives are here, they're just on the cusp of being approved for widespread use... but as equality minded as I am, I'm not sure I would pick up on it. They're basically designed to shut you down just like anabolic steroids do, but without the anabolic effect. All the negatives, none of the fun. I'd rather just take anabolic steroids at that point. To be clear, I've never supported any partner of mine to be on the pill either, and I wouldn't take it if I was a woman.
  - throwamon 5y ago
    There's also Vasalgel, a contraceptive under development since 2010 that is, well, a gel that is inserted in the vase where sperm passes through, and it's supposed to be long-lasting while still reversible. I don't know if it's legit or if it will ever actually work, and I haven't followed their progress, but they have a Twitter and a mailing list. If anyone has summarized info on the state of things, I'd love to know. https://www.parsemus.org/humanhealth/vasalgel/ https://www.parsemus.org/humanhealth/vasalgel/
nbzso 5y ago
Just say no to social expectations. No to social idea of success. No to career driven decisions. No to trends or fashion. Find your true self and be grateful for life itself. Definition of success must be personal and harmonious with one self capabilities and aspirations. On the basic level of human experience is health, everything else is secondary. We are lost in dreams, expectations and ideas generated by our collective approval of values given to us by exploitative systems. Systems designed to be dominant from the start. Find your own version of reality. And if this version is not harmful to others and gives you freedom and creativity you are happy individual. Period.

Desperate Measures

23 points by Vigier 5y ago

chartpath 5y ago

And we still don't have a male contraceptive pill.

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toomuchtodo 5y ago
Put some semen in cryostorage [1] and get a vasectomy. ~$1000 all in, no oopsies, and your tissue quality is preserved at your age of storage (with a small risk of loss of storage over time). The vasectomy alone is only a few hundred bucks (with insurance; without, max cost is $1500) if having kids isn’t your thing, and widely available. I recommend it to everyone who will listen (the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 is $233,610, per child [2]). Median lifetime earnings in the US are $1.7 million [3]. [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Semen_cryopreservation https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Semen_cryopreservation [2] https://fns-prod.azureedge.net/sites/default/files/crc2015_March2017_0.pdf https://fns-prod.azureedge.net/sites/default/files/crc2015_M... [3] https://cew.georgetown.edu/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/collegepayoff-complete.pdf https://cew.georgetown.edu/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/colleg...
bedobi 5y ago
Male contraceptives are here, they're just on the cusp of being approved for widespread use... but as equality minded as I am, I'm not sure I would pick up on it. They're basically designed to shut you down just like anabolic steroids do, but without the anabolic effect. All the negatives, none of the fun. I'd rather just take anabolic steroids at that point. To be clear, I've never supported any partner of mine to be on the pill either, and I wouldn't take it if I was a woman.
- throwamon 5y ago
  There's also Vasalgel, a contraceptive under development since 2010 that is, well, a gel that is inserted in the vase where sperm passes through, and it's supposed to be long-lasting while still reversible. I don't know if it's legit or if it will ever actually work, and I haven't followed their progress, but they have a Twitter and a mailing list. If anyone has summarized info on the state of things, I'd love to know. https://www.parsemus.org/humanhealth/vasalgel/ https://www.parsemus.org/humanhealth/vasalgel/

nbzso 5y ago

Just say no to social expectations. No to social idea of success. No to career driven decisions. No to trends or fashion. Find your true self and be grateful for life itself. Definition of success must be personal and harmonious with one self capabilities and aspirations. On the basic level of human experience is health, everything else is secondary. We are lost in dreams, expectations and ideas generated by our collective approval of values given to us by exploitative systems. Systems designed to be dominant from the start. Find your own version of reality. And if this version is not harmful to others and gives you freedom and creativity you are happy individual. Period.