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I hear more about the American hatred of redemption in that speech than the harmability of oneself from overwork. A person that has truly amended his relations

• watwut 5y ago
  > A person that has truly amended his relationships seems to have stronger ones than one who always had ‘fine’ ones, in many cases. And in many cases, there is no amending anymore, cause other people got enough of it and trully moved on.And in even more cases, those seemingly strong relationships are actually noticeably damaged forever. They seem good because they are shelfes hanging together by sheer effort and often only out of inertia. No matter how repetant you are, you cant unhurt other people. Repetance is about you, but they in the meantime made own decisions. And if your plan from the start was to be repetant later to get back things you decided to sacrifice, it is smart from them to not accept it.
• llampx 5y ago
  American hatred of redemption? [Citation needed] for sure. Relationships can survive a lot, but not every relationship can survive a lot, and sure there may be relationships that survive a lot of neglect but including those means you're falling for survivorship bias. A child that hasn't seen her parent in the formative years of childhood because they were too busy at work isn't going to be able to relate to her parent the same as a child who was able to. I see that with some of my acquaintances and their relationship with their father.