tl;dr you're an Indian, you say that it's mostly the Pakistanis' fault. Why does "fault" matter at all? One approach to conflict resolution is to admit both pa

tl;dr you're an Indian, you say that it's mostly the Pakistanis' fault. Why does "fault" matter at all? One approach to conflict resolution is to admit both parties are at fault, and to agree that they are both _equally_at_fault_. Or.. squabble forever about who is more to blame.