I don't mean to put those people down - it is what it is. I'm privileged to be able to live frugally without sacrifice. I do object however at calling your pare

I don't mean to put those people down - it is what it is. I'm privileged to be able to live frugally without sacrifice. I do object however at calling your parents' utility costs essential or mandatory. I hope some good counterexamples can help them/others see it's not impossible to spend less if they invest their energy in making changes.