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> if you reacted to verbal bullying, you showed a weakness, you showed you care. This is not how it works. If you simply ignore verbal bullying, and the next a
by asteroidbelt 5y ago
> if you reacted to verbal bullying, you showed a weakness, you showed you care.
This is not how it works. If you simply ignore verbal bullying, and the next attempt, and the next, eventually you may become an outcast at best, of the amount of bullying will be increased at worst.
You show your weakness if your reaction had signs of weakness (like weeping). If you defend yourself, it is not weakness.
> Once we taught kids not to fight anymore
People should teach their kids not to start a fight. But their cannot teach other parents kids.
And they should teach their kids how to fight back.