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> "...they have come to realize that they won’t be great, or remembered after their death..." Mary Schmich's classic graduation speech has a line which sums up
by ThrowawayR2 5y ago
> "...they have come to realize that they won’t be great, or remembered after their death..."
Mary Schmich's classic graduation speech has a line which sums up my view on this very well: "Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself." I don't worry about whether I'll be remembered after my death because 1) nobody remembers me now and 2) I'm not here on this good earth to satisfy some hypothetical future assessors (and nor were those who became great and remembered).
However, unlike others, I won't say that you should necessarily find meaning elsewhere. The lines of Dylan Thomas' poem "Do not go gentle into that good night / Rage, rage against the dying of the light." come to mind. Much like an arcade game player trying to beat their own high score, you can, if you choose, to continue "running the race" for greatness solely for your own satisfaction and, at the end of your days, take comfort in knowing that you achieved as much as you could've with the hand you were dealt. And, who knows? Maybe fame and fortune will find you along the way.
- innagadadavida 5y agoWow, amazingly said. One thing few people talk about is how this type of competition can cause depression and other issues if you believe and think about every waking hour of the day. This is especially true in certain regions like the SF Bay Area where everyone seems to be an over achiever.