Sounds like you just need to put some effort into building a social life outside of work... And dating a co-worker in today's climate? No way, to much a risk -

Sounds like you just need to put some effort into building a social life outside of work... And dating a co-worker in today's climate? No way, to much a risk -at least in the US. The rest of them (comfortable space to work, food) are easy to solve with minimal effort. Especially on a dev salary.