Thank you so much for this response. Completely agree with everything you're saying. I was getting quite sad about the other responses. It feels a lot like sur

Thank you so much for this response. Completely agree with everything you're saying. I was getting quite sad about the other responses. It feels a lot like survivorship bias to me. Kinda like "I suffered through this, so others should also be able to suffer through it". I don't see why everyone else here seems to think it's fine to put students through this hell.