Some people try to force/shame TDD on others because it's more "efficient". "You're going to have to do it anyways." they say. Well, it's your mind and it's you

Some people try to force/shame TDD on others because it's more "efficient". "You're going to have to do it anyways." they say. Well, it's your mind and it's your time not theirs. Only you will know what's right for you. If TDD doesn't work out while learning a language then drop it. If it works out then great. I'm sensing this TDD arrogance that really pisses me off. It's not the only way to write a program. It all depends on who/what the program is written for.