The question isn't whether a good employer-employee relationship is possible. the question is whether a horrible employee-employer relationship, one that has si

The question isn't whether a good employer-employee relationship is possible. the question is whether a horrible employee-employer relationship, one that has significant butterfly effects, is possible. More pertinently, the question is whether it's possible for someone to be in such complex circumstances that finding a good employer, or even job opportunity, is possible for that person. The incel community isn't the right comparison maybe? A more apt comparison might be domestic abuse worldwide. Sometimes I'm amazed at the assumptions being made here and elsewhere that what applies to one person's life applies at large. It's not just survivorship bias, it's some kind of egocentrism (in a perceptual sense) bias. You yourself say you consider yourself lucky. Do you really? What about the unlucky ones? It's easy to say "well for two decades it's worked out for me and hundreds of neighbors" forgetting that there's many more decades in a life, and billions of people.