My experience living in a large Midwest Metro area is that I never see people outside certain activities. I used to play pickup soccer, these people would never

My experience living in a large Midwest Metro area is that I never see people outside certain activities. I used to play pickup soccer, these people would never join me in a programming meetup, or as a musician, non-musician friends are non-existent outside certain events. I attribute it to everybody living in different areas etc., but do tire at everything being so compartmentalized.