I'm there. Never in my life have I had a friend even close to "best man" material, in either direction. For whatever reason, I've never been able to maintain

I'm there. Never in my life have I had a friend even close to "best man" material, in either direction. For whatever reason, I've never been able to maintain friendships for more than a couple of years. Something always goes wrong, or folks just lose interest. In my mid forties now, it seems obvious that this is due to personality flaws of my own.