I think there are more parameters. Some people's "natural max" for actively calling or messaging on a timescale of, say, weeks or months if there's no feeling

I think there are more parameters. Some people's "natural max" for actively calling or messaging on a timescale of, say, weeks or months if there's no feeling of obligation is zero. But it doesn't necessarily mean that aren't interested. Some of those people love keeping in touch when it happens - and are genuinely interested. Their "natural max" for people they enjoy being in touch with regularly (ie. not being a task) is much higher than the number they tend initiate things with. Come to think of it that might be true for everyone.