As another man your age, there's nothing of value to gain on Tinder. It's a meat market and you're viewing carefully crafted advertisements. It's a system that

As another man your age, there's nothing of value to gain on Tinder. It's a meat market and you're viewing carefully crafted advertisements. It's a system that dehumanizes all involved. My advice is to stop thinking and start doing. Go do something that's actually interesting (to yourself!). Try to keep an open mind for other people and take a "why not?" approach to social activities and talking to people, but the most important thing is to be actually doing something cool.