I'm your age x2. Here's how it worked in the old days. You walked your area with friends and showed off in front of the girls you met. You met girls at the (chu

I'm your age x2. Here's how it worked in the old days. You walked your area with friends and showed off in front of the girls you met. You met girls at the (church) youthclub or disco. You met girls at a bar or nightclub. You met girls at school and at work. You met girls while on holiday. I knew many girls in real life. I kissed a few but the only girl I ever 'hooked' up with was my wife. We were friends for 6 years before we started to date. I have been happily married for 25 years. My advice to you is twofold. Don't put yourself under so much pressure. Second, go out and enjoy other people's company. Life often tends to be you meet someone who connects you to a girl. This new world of cutting out the middle man seems strange to me but then where there is money to be made people will find it. I'm not sure it's important what you choose to do but find a real world activity where you can connect with others. You may make friends there, meet a girl, or just enjoy other people's company. You may even experience some drama there but that's part of the learning of being young. Thankfully some of the plans I pursued at your age didn't work out but it was all part of the journey. Good luck young man :-)