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Unpopular opinion: I’ll start by assuming you’re in a first world country as Tinder is a first world dating app. Drop tinder immediately and forget about dati

Unpopular opinion: I’ll start by assuming you’re in a first world country as Tinder is a first world dating app. Drop tinder immediately and forget about dating women from your country. Something happened over the past 50 or so years and first world women’s standards have become unrealistically high. Maybe it was social media, or dating apps, who knows, but the fact is, the majority of them have adopted this “impress me” attitude where they view themselves as a prize, and they expect you to bring everything to the table. Dating them is no longer worth it, and they’re all pining after the top 10% of guys anyway. But I’m not saying you need to go full MGTOW. Instead, find a sincere woman from overseas who will appreciate you more than a first world woman ever could, bring her to your country, and marry her. You will both be happy. I know someone who did this, and they are a very happy and successful couple. Find a woman who will appreciate the love you have to give.

D13Fd 5y ago
> Something happened over the past 50 or so years That's a huge span of time. I may be incorrect, but I believe many couples in first-world countries have met, married, and lived happily in those 50 years without the need for anyone to aim for a "sincere woman from overseas."
themoonbus 5y ago
Maybe this is an unpopular opinion because it is misogynistic garble. I think you should spend less time giving advice and more taking it.
- booleandilemma 5y ago
  I know the truth can be hard to hear sometimes and it’s easy to resort to labels and name calling. I’m just suggesting the OP value himself, and find someone who values him. There’s nothing misogynistic about that.
- dennis_jeeves 5y ago
  Why dismiss booleandilemma as misogynistic ? My observations do match what he had to say, I estimate that a large number of marriages ( 50-80%)are dysfunctional and when a divorce happens, if you are a man in the first world you are screwed up financially and emotionally _permanently_ . The courts nearly always side with the woman. If young men need advice they need to see realty as it is.

D13Fd 5y ago

> Something happened over the past 50 or so years That's a huge span of time. I may be incorrect, but I believe many couples in first-world countries have met, married, and lived happily in those 50 years without the need for anyone to aim for a "sincere woman from overseas."

themoonbus 5y ago

Maybe this is an unpopular opinion because it is misogynistic garble. I think you should spend less time giving advice and more taking it.

booleandilemma 5y ago
I know the truth can be hard to hear sometimes and it’s easy to resort to labels and name calling. I’m just suggesting the OP value himself, and find someone who values him. There’s nothing misogynistic about that.
dennis_jeeves 5y ago
Why dismiss booleandilemma as misogynistic ? My observations do match what he had to say, I estimate that a large number of marriages ( 50-80%)are dysfunctional and when a divorce happens, if you are a man in the first world you are screwed up financially and emotionally _permanently_ . The courts nearly always side with the woman. If young men need advice they need to see realty as it is.