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Tinder is like Instagram, everyone is incentivized to fake or exaggerate how nice their life is. Honestly, the best remedy is find new hobbies. Some people men
by lhorie 5y ago
Tinder is like Instagram, everyone is incentivized to fake or exaggerate how nice their life is.
Honestly, the best remedy is find new hobbies. Some people mentioned sports/martial arts and religion/spiritualism, those are all fine options, and there are many more: cooking, gardening, biking, music classes, adopting a puppy, etc.
"Being a loser" is just a perception. Unlike what society might lead you to believe, nobody gets to decide that you're a "loser" based on some arbitrary metric.
You sound like you're into programming so obviously there are things that bring you joy. You just may not have found other joyful activities yet, so just go out there and try new things.
Life is too good of an opportunity to waste with suicide
- thephen 5y ago+1,000: “Tinder is like Instagram, everyone is incentivized to fake or exaggerate how nice their life is.” So true. And true of FB, Twitter, etc.
- MeinBlutIstBlau 5y agoMost guys don't know how to game their profiles. While I didn't match with like 7s-10s, I certainly matched, talked to, and met up with many women. Unfortunately in my area a lot of women who are single in their mid 20's typically have a kid, aren't very attractive, or are just very odd that most guys don't want to be with them. But ultimately OP needs to get off Tinder not because it's bad for his self esteem. Mostly because he probably doesn't even have the appropriate aptitude to date at this time. Also, do not go into dating because you don't want to be lonely. Girls want to be your anchor, not the other way around. The cultural stereotypes of "the 'ol ball n chain" exist because the people who actually are in relationships understand this social dynamic. It's the people that aren't that don't.