I see both sides here. On the whole, I think both people are trying to contribute and help in their own ways. Some more specific comments: > You're being comb

I see both sides here. On the whole, I think both people are trying to contribute and help in their own ways. Some more specific comments: > You're being combative for no reason so I'll leave it here but, in the future, don't always assume malice. Saying "no reason" doesn't ring true to me. What one person considers to be (valid) reasons is subjective. In my view, 'reasons' includes a person's identity and experiences. With that in mind, how do you think this alternative message would have been received... ? "It was not my intention to chastise you. I meant well in offering some ways to reduce the chances that trolls come after you. Please don't assume malice. I'm happy to listen if you have suggestions on how I could communicate the message more effectively."