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It indeed is a luxury to be able to take a year off at will. Big reason I can think of is financials. In my opinion, burnout is a problem only faced by people

It indeed is a luxury to be able to take a year off at will. Big reason I can think of is financials. In my opinion, burnout is a problem only faced by people who can afford to do so. I am not saying everyone doesn't face burnout, they probably do, but not everyone can afford to take a sabbatical, dip into savings, indulge in a hobby etc. There are many people who don't earn as much as a silicon valley engineer, have low savings to dip into, and perhaps even have/inherit debt - Making rent and being able to afford essentials takes priority to dealing with burnout in such situations.

nickthemagicman 5y ago
2/3 of America lives paycheck to paycheck. Taking a year off is definitely not the norm
- caseysoftware 5y ago
  Most people pay $100+/month for cable, eat out multiple times per week, have thousands of credit card debt, and an unexpected $400 bill would ravage them. If you want to live a un-average life, you need to have un-average priorities and sacrifice. Few on HN should be living paycheck to paycheck. Check out Dave Ramsey's Total Money Makeover for a starting model. And yes, you'll have to sacrifice now to benefit later.
  - JoeQuery 5y ago
    I totally recommend everyone read Dave Ramsay's work to understand how to approach money. It was an eye opener for me. But you have to understand that consumerism is pushed down our throats from all around starting at a very young age. Dave Ramsay doesn't just come into your consciousness like advertising does, and unless one is close to someone who is very anti consumerism and advertising you will likely be subjected to an onslaught of messages aimed at your subconscious that you are completely ill-equipped to fight. I think many people in these comments are speaking on behalf of the general population who does not have the luxury of taking a year off. This comment of yours drips with privilege. Edit: I was introduced to dave Ramsay's work in my 20s by a close friend who was wealthy and had businesses and homes. He volunteered with some organizations to provide financial literacy classes. I was lucky to have been given that reference.
    - caseysoftware 5y ago
      While many here are commenting on the abstract general population, most are speaking about themselves with variations of "must be nice!" When you fly, the emergency briefing tells you to put on your own mask before helping others. In lifeguard training, you're taught to keep yourself afloat before the victim. If you don't have your own finances in order, your opinion on others' finances is just noise and about as valuable.
      - JoeQuery 5y ago
        > most are speaking about themselves with variations of "must be nice!" Not necessarily. It's called empathy. And your lifeguard story makes no sense.
        Clubber 5y ago
        A drowning victim will instinctively push the rescuer under the water, so the rescuer must have a secure flotation device. It was (probably still is) taught to pull the rescue-e to land by having the victim facing away with your arm around their neck and under the armpit facing away. This is to keep them from drowning you. This is also biblical - take the splitter out of your own eye before you take the splinter out of another's eye (paraphrasing).
        JoeQuery 5y ago
        I know that. But it is not apparent why that was relevant to the conversation.
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  - YrAz3EGttt 5y ago
    Can speak for myself, I don't live paycheck to paycheck now but I grew up in a household with a lot less money than I make now in comparison - Involved lot of sacrifices and accumulating modest savings over a lifetime to help the next generation to live a bit better and make fewer such sacrifices. > Most people pay $100+/month for cable, eat out multiple times per week, have thousands of credit card debt, and an unexpected $400 bill would ravage them. There's also a cohort that might not earn a lot but is financially responsible, frugal and makes modest gains towards big goals e.g. education for kids, home ownership which can take almost a life time. There's a big spectrum from being poor due to being financially irresponsible and being lucky enough to be in their 20s, debt free and paying off a mortgage instead of rent (with help for college, down payment etc from family to have a healthy head start). Not everyone who doesn't have the means is in such a place because they are lazy or is financially irresponsible. Simply stating that most people are a certain way without evidence is just disingenuous and judgemental, perhaps exposes a bias more than anything.
    - caseysoftware 5y ago
      > Involved lot of sacrifices and accumulating modest savings over a lifetime to help the next generation to live a bit better and make fewer such sacrifices. Congrats. That's awesome and it's what we should strive for. Sacrificing sucks but doing it now so we have to do less of it later (or later generations have to do less) is powerful. Your parents setting that example for you - and you passing it down - is exceptionally valuable too. I grew up in similar financial circumstances without learning those lessons until much much later. > There's also a cohort that might... Yes, there are cohorts in all circumstances. That's why I said "most" and not "all."
  - nickthemagicman 5y ago
    This is called the myth of overconsumption. It creates a simple fairy tale that financial success or failure rests solely on the individual. It allows people to ignore wage stagnation, inflation, rising costs of critical goods and services, rising inequality, and fundament structural inequities with society. Here's a more in-depth academic paper that provides data beyond unsourced colloquialisms if you're interested. https://openscholarship.wustl.edu/law_lawreview/vol82/iss4/8/ https://openscholarship.wustl.edu/law_lawreview/vol82/iss4/8...
    - newfriend 5y ago
      And this is the myth of "The Man is keeping me down". It allows people to ignore that their choices are by far the biggest factor in what happens in their lives, and instead allows them blame society and take no responsibility.
      - ranma4703 5y ago
        Your unsourced colloquialisms is a pretty tone deaf response to this comment, but I guess you're demonstrating their point, good job
      - nickthemagicman 5y ago
        I think your claim is partially true. People can make good/bad choices but the amount and types of choices a person even has available to them, is very dependent on pre-existing family success/wealth. Jeff Bezo's kids will have more choices/opportunities than a middle class kid who will have more choices/opportunities than a poor kid. Starving Syrian Refugess have very minimal choices or opportunities. So your average middle class or poor person has some choices but is much more at the mercy of their ENVIRONMENT than Jeff Bezo's kids who can bend the environment to their will with money. Your heels seem pretty dug into your belief's so there's a good chance I'm wasting my time by talking to you but whatever.
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      - YrAz3EGttt 5y ago
  - goatse-4-u 5y ago
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  - ranma4703 5y ago
    Do you actually know anyone like this, or are you basing this off of what cable news personalities say? I know plenty of people with no cable, no Internet other than their phone, living paycheck to paycheck... This idea that poor people just need to stop wasting their money is propaganda used to justify starvation wages
  - RickJWagner 5y ago
    Better than Dave Ramsey, check out Bogleheads.org. You (and everyone else) really do own your financial life. There can be curveballs-- a catastrophic illness, for example-- but for the vast majority of people, having money or not is really a series of personal decisions made over a lifetime.

nickthemagicman 5y ago

2/3 of America lives paycheck to paycheck. Taking a year off is definitely not the norm

caseysoftware 5y ago
Most people pay $100+/month for cable, eat out multiple times per week, have thousands of credit card debt, and an unexpected $400 bill would ravage them. If you want to live a un-average life, you need to have un-average priorities and sacrifice. Few on HN should be living paycheck to paycheck. Check out Dave Ramsey's Total Money Makeover for a starting model. And yes, you'll have to sacrifice now to benefit later.
- JoeQuery 5y ago
  I totally recommend everyone read Dave Ramsay's work to understand how to approach money. It was an eye opener for me. But you have to understand that consumerism is pushed down our throats from all around starting at a very young age. Dave Ramsay doesn't just come into your consciousness like advertising does, and unless one is close to someone who is very anti consumerism and advertising you will likely be subjected to an onslaught of messages aimed at your subconscious that you are completely ill-equipped to fight. I think many people in these comments are speaking on behalf of the general population who does not have the luxury of taking a year off. This comment of yours drips with privilege. Edit: I was introduced to dave Ramsay's work in my 20s by a close friend who was wealthy and had businesses and homes. He volunteered with some organizations to provide financial literacy classes. I was lucky to have been given that reference.
  - caseysoftware 5y ago
    While many here are commenting on the abstract general population, most are speaking about themselves with variations of "must be nice!" When you fly, the emergency briefing tells you to put on your own mask before helping others. In lifeguard training, you're taught to keep yourself afloat before the victim. If you don't have your own finances in order, your opinion on others' finances is just noise and about as valuable.
    - JoeQuery 5y ago
      > most are speaking about themselves with variations of "must be nice!" Not necessarily. It's called empathy. And your lifeguard story makes no sense.
      - Clubber 5y ago
        A drowning victim will instinctively push the rescuer under the water, so the rescuer must have a secure flotation device. It was (probably still is) taught to pull the rescue-e to land by having the victim facing away with your arm around their neck and under the armpit facing away. This is to keep them from drowning you. This is also biblical - take the splitter out of your own eye before you take the splinter out of another's eye (paraphrasing).
        JoeQuery 5y ago
        I know that. But it is not apparent why that was relevant to the conversation.
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- YrAz3EGttt 5y ago
  Can speak for myself, I don't live paycheck to paycheck now but I grew up in a household with a lot less money than I make now in comparison - Involved lot of sacrifices and accumulating modest savings over a lifetime to help the next generation to live a bit better and make fewer such sacrifices. > Most people pay $100+/month for cable, eat out multiple times per week, have thousands of credit card debt, and an unexpected $400 bill would ravage them. There's also a cohort that might not earn a lot but is financially responsible, frugal and makes modest gains towards big goals e.g. education for kids, home ownership which can take almost a life time. There's a big spectrum from being poor due to being financially irresponsible and being lucky enough to be in their 20s, debt free and paying off a mortgage instead of rent (with help for college, down payment etc from family to have a healthy head start). Not everyone who doesn't have the means is in such a place because they are lazy or is financially irresponsible. Simply stating that most people are a certain way without evidence is just disingenuous and judgemental, perhaps exposes a bias more than anything.
  - caseysoftware 5y ago
    > Involved lot of sacrifices and accumulating modest savings over a lifetime to help the next generation to live a bit better and make fewer such sacrifices. Congrats. That's awesome and it's what we should strive for. Sacrificing sucks but doing it now so we have to do less of it later (or later generations have to do less) is powerful. Your parents setting that example for you - and you passing it down - is exceptionally valuable too. I grew up in similar financial circumstances without learning those lessons until much much later. > There's also a cohort that might... Yes, there are cohorts in all circumstances. That's why I said "most" and not "all."
- nickthemagicman 5y ago
  This is called the myth of overconsumption. It creates a simple fairy tale that financial success or failure rests solely on the individual. It allows people to ignore wage stagnation, inflation, rising costs of critical goods and services, rising inequality, and fundament structural inequities with society. Here's a more in-depth academic paper that provides data beyond unsourced colloquialisms if you're interested. https://openscholarship.wustl.edu/law_lawreview/vol82/iss4/8/ https://openscholarship.wustl.edu/law_lawreview/vol82/iss4/8...
  - newfriend 5y ago
    And this is the myth of "The Man is keeping me down". It allows people to ignore that their choices are by far the biggest factor in what happens in their lives, and instead allows them blame society and take no responsibility.
    - ranma4703 5y ago
      Your unsourced colloquialisms is a pretty tone deaf response to this comment, but I guess you're demonstrating their point, good job
    - nickthemagicman 5y ago
      I think your claim is partially true. People can make good/bad choices but the amount and types of choices a person even has available to them, is very dependent on pre-existing family success/wealth. Jeff Bezo's kids will have more choices/opportunities than a middle class kid who will have more choices/opportunities than a poor kid. Starving Syrian Refugess have very minimal choices or opportunities. So your average middle class or poor person has some choices but is much more at the mercy of their ENVIRONMENT than Jeff Bezo's kids who can bend the environment to their will with money. Your heels seem pretty dug into your belief's so there's a good chance I'm wasting my time by talking to you but whatever.
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    - YrAz3EGttt 5y ago
- goatse-4-u 5y ago
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- ranma4703 5y ago
  Do you actually know anyone like this, or are you basing this off of what cable news personalities say? I know plenty of people with no cable, no Internet other than their phone, living paycheck to paycheck... This idea that poor people just need to stop wasting their money is propaganda used to justify starvation wages
- RickJWagner 5y ago
  Better than Dave Ramsey, check out Bogleheads.org. You (and everyone else) really do own your financial life. There can be curveballs-- a catastrophic illness, for example-- but for the vast majority of people, having money or not is really a series of personal decisions made over a lifetime.