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While this adopting this positive attitude will improve anyone's situation it might in fact only lead to a local Optima in the wellbeing of certain people and I

While this adopting this positive attitude will improve anyone's situation it might in fact only lead to a local Optima in the wellbeing of certain people and I find it unfair to restrict them away from a path leading to better solution for them. Not everyone works as you do.

cryptica 5y ago
In my case, I focused away from my personal complexes for so long that nowadays I don't care about them at all. The negative emotion is completely gone. When I was younger, I was obsessed with my appearance and the sound of my voice. Thinking about them constantly and always feeling terrible about myself 24/7. Stuck in a loop. This led to a constant sense of self-loathing and kept my self-esteem low which probably made things worse. I had to bury myself in something difficult for years and really struggle at it in order to escape these negative feedback loops.