> Why should someone "come out" as anything? > Why did he/she say that to me? Isn't this just the process of getting to know someone? As you get to know someo

> Why should someone "come out" as anything? > Why did he/she say that to me? Isn't this just the process of getting to know someone? As you get to know someone, you share more information about yourself. I think it's a pretty normal desire for people you spend time around to understand you, and part of that is understanding the way you relate to other people.