As someone who has struggled with a lot of emotional/mental stuff, I read these things and get angry. Not angry at you or what you're saying, angry at the state

As someone who has struggled with a lot of emotional/mental stuff, I read these things and get angry. Not angry at you or what you're saying, angry at the state of mental health right now. My wife had been struggling with things due to chronic sever pain. She has been trying for two years to find someone to actually talk to and it's nearly impossible. The insurance has a list and if you go down the list it's a combination of retired, no new patients, child psychology only, OBGYN (wat??) and one star reviews for the one or two people that will talk to her. After one session, it's pretty obvious why they're rated so low. Finding qualified mental health care is so difficult, it's amazing people make it through. Our only option is paying out of pocket but with the constant medical bills we already have (chronic painz physical therapy that's gone past the hard limit on session, etc), we don't really have a lot to spare.