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> I had far more success in online dating when I started moving towards "let's meet in person as quickly as possible" Preach! I made the mistake initially of p
by klipt 5y ago
> I had far more success in online dating when I started moving towards "let's meet in person as quickly as possible"
Preach! I made the mistake initially of putting in lots of effort to woo some very introverted women with long text conversations because I fell in love with their detailed profiles. Then we meet in person and they were inevitably, if not autistic ... severely socially challenged.
In the end I married a woman with a very simple dating profile instead. We just clicked really well in person, and she's really smart, just not the kind of person to live on the internet and write really detailed profiles. Which is a good complement to me because I tend towards being that person :-p
- tolbish 5y agoIn that sense, having the perfect profile, or at least an elaborate or detailed one, may be a red flag.
- the_only_law 5y agoThis seems to be a common opinion in the space. Simpler, more generic is often considered better.
- MonaroVXR 5y agoYou got a source for this?