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> I'd take a non-reply over that sort of signal. My understanding is that women get so many messages that they're overloaded and invest most of their time repl
by tmp_anon_22 5y ago
> I'd take a non-reply over that sort of signal.
My understanding is that women get so many messages that they're overloaded and invest most of their time replying to top candidates while folks lower on the totem pole get dismissed curtly or ghosted.
And it makes sense, we all treat non-scarce resources pretty wastefully.
The question is are dating apps still worth it even though it makes you feel like a commodity?
- Dracophoenix 5y agoIt's no different from job hunting or college admissions. We're all commodities. The more important question is whether the commodity is worth the effort. In online dating, the reasonable answer for all but a few people, certain special considerations notwithstanding, would be "No". Instead the average American male is either better off leveraging his under-appreciated qualities internationally in some from of sexual arbitrage or waiting until sexbots arrive.