I'm not sure why you think the thread stemmed from an anti-natalist perspective. Even then, raising children is not what anti-natalism condemns. It's bringing

I'm not sure why you think the thread stemmed from an anti-natalist perspective. Even then, raising children is not what anti-natalism condemns. It's bringing children to life. It's not reasonable to condemn a care giver who didn't beget the child (and it's usually impossible to know whether they did).