Get the ESTA and go to Silicon Valley. Thats the only real answer and the only answer you'll get here. That won't get you over your misanthropy, California has

Get the ESTA and go to Silicon Valley. Thats the only real answer and the only answer you'll get here. That won't get you over your misanthropy, California has problems lol, and Silicon Valley also has a parallel non-technical industry that just caters to people with tech dreams, such as hackathons and VC-star studded conferences with no utility for anyone. But thats the answer.