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It's funny because I behave entirely the opposite. I'm as transparent and open as possible. I'm just myself and no way I can live hiding my own personality beca
by sktrdie 5y ago
It's funny because I behave entirely the opposite. I'm as transparent and open as possible. I'm just myself and no way I can live hiding my own personality because of other people's feelings.
If the people around me don't like it or my work won't accept it then I simply move to new friends/work where my "character" is understood or accepted.
I find similarities in this with some standup comedy I do & the group of friends I found there. They accept my "naughtier" funny side because we all talk shit about everything and about each other. We're constantly roasting each other and we all love it. Politics & drama is welcome here!
Surely I can't bring the same character into an office meeting but you'll easily see where the line is - no need to go completely all out as you are.
You wouldn't talk to your grandma about your sex life the same way you talk about it with your buddies.
Adapt and move on, but maybe no need to hide your true self.