We should respect honesty more. At least then we can talk about the real issues, like maybe finding relationships in a non-work context. We can call this pers

We should respect honesty more. At least then we can talk about the real issues, like maybe finding relationships in a non-work context. We can call this person selfish and attend to the root malice only because they were honest. If they just contrived a reason to further their goal state, then they are being both duplicitous and selfish, which seems to be something we should respect less?