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I need an app that can tell me when my cat has had enough pettings to alert me before he flips over and latches on to my arm and kicks layers of my skin off. T

I need an app that can tell me when my cat has had enough pettings to alert me before he flips over and latches on to my arm and kicks layers of my skin off. That app would make a FORTUNE!

Traubenfuchs 5y ago
My cat gives very clear signals. Tail starts moving angrily, cat heats up, purring stop.
tomaszs 5y ago
I was pretty successful with using the rule of three. You pet a cat three times. No less, no more. Cat won't be irritated by prolonged petting, but also not fully satisfied with only three pets. My cat never scratched me when I used this rule.
- StavrosK 5y ago
  Do you guys not trim their nails? No scratching when they aren't sharp.
  - barrkel 5y ago
    If they ever end up outside, they're defenceless.
    - StavrosK 5y ago
      Ah yeah, true, we don't let out cat outside, or if we're going to, we don't trim her nails for a few weeks beforehand.
jnurmine 5y ago
Disclaimer: I'm no Jackson Galaxy. But pets, both cats and dogs, communicate with their owners in their own way. Cats are a lot about body language. For your question I just look at the ears and the tail. When the ears go lower and/or tail starts wagging, I stop. Or when my cat moves a small distance away, sits there and stares/smiles? I stop. I've noticed that what I interpret as a desire for petting is often some other business. Maybe the litterbox is full. Or maybe it's playtime (thinks the cat). Or something else is amiss. It maybe sounds stupid but when I can't read my cat, I usually just ask. I say repeatedly "show me", "where", "show me", "where" etc. and slowly walk behind my cat and let it lead. For example, if the balcony door is open and cold air is coming in (my cat doesn't like cold), my cat sometimes takes me to first to the fridge and then leads me to the balcony door. When the litterbox is full my cat takes me near it and sits there facing it, within visual/smelling range, but never very close to it. And so on, one has to connect the dots from the context, and ask the question "what is there at this location that is meaningful to the cat". Of course sometimes I can't fix what my cat wants. Like when the Sun has moved away and the sleeping place in the chair has fallen under a shadow. So my cat tries a few times, repeating the same behaviour, but eventually gives up, either gets bored or realizes I can't or won't help.
- ficklepickle 5y ago
  I also follow my cat while asking questions! It's almost always food, water, catnip or litter. Regarding the water: he won't drink chlorinated water. In his previous home, he developed urinary stones because they didn't figure this out. Cue a BS prescription diet sold by "vets". Nope, he just needed fresh, non-chlorinated water.
- dTal 5y ago
  >For example, if the balcony door is open and cold air is coming in (my cat doesn't like cold), my cat sometimes takes me to first to the fridge and then leads me to the balcony door That is an extraordinary level of symbolic communication for a cat!

I need an app that can tell me when my cat has had enough pettings to alert me before he flips over and latches on to my arm and kicks layers of my skin off. That app would make a FORTUNE!

Traubenfuchs 5y ago

My cat gives very clear signals. Tail starts moving angrily, cat heats up, purring stop.

tomaszs 5y ago

I was pretty successful with using the rule of three. You pet a cat three times. No less, no more. Cat won't be irritated by prolonged petting, but also not fully satisfied with only three pets. My cat never scratched me when I used this rule.

StavrosK 5y ago
Do you guys not trim their nails? No scratching when they aren't sharp.
- barrkel 5y ago
  If they ever end up outside, they're defenceless.
  - StavrosK 5y ago
    Ah yeah, true, we don't let out cat outside, or if we're going to, we don't trim her nails for a few weeks beforehand.

jnurmine 5y ago

Disclaimer: I'm no Jackson Galaxy. But pets, both cats and dogs, communicate with their owners in their own way. Cats are a lot about body language. For your question I just look at the ears and the tail. When the ears go lower and/or tail starts wagging, I stop. Or when my cat moves a small distance away, sits there and stares/smiles? I stop. I've noticed that what I interpret as a desire for petting is often some other business. Maybe the litterbox is full. Or maybe it's playtime (thinks the cat). Or something else is amiss. It maybe sounds stupid but when I can't read my cat, I usually just ask. I say repeatedly "show me", "where", "show me", "where" etc. and slowly walk behind my cat and let it lead. For example, if the balcony door is open and cold air is coming in (my cat doesn't like cold), my cat sometimes takes me to first to the fridge and then leads me to the balcony door. When the litterbox is full my cat takes me near it and sits there facing it, within visual/smelling range, but never very close to it. And so on, one has to connect the dots from the context, and ask the question "what is there at this location that is meaningful to the cat". Of course sometimes I can't fix what my cat wants. Like when the Sun has moved away and the sleeping place in the chair has fallen under a shadow. So my cat tries a few times, repeating the same behaviour, but eventually gives up, either gets bored or realizes I can't or won't help.

ficklepickle 5y ago
I also follow my cat while asking questions! It's almost always food, water, catnip or litter. Regarding the water: he won't drink chlorinated water. In his previous home, he developed urinary stones because they didn't figure this out. Cue a BS prescription diet sold by "vets". Nope, he just needed fresh, non-chlorinated water.
dTal 5y ago
>For example, if the balcony door is open and cold air is coming in (my cat doesn't like cold), my cat sometimes takes me to first to the fridge and then leads me to the balcony door That is an extraordinary level of symbolic communication for a cat!