I have tried ORMs in only 3 languages, they all sucked. It is not all fault of the language though - writing SQL in SQL feels natural, but writing SQL in PHP/Go

I have tried ORMs in only 3 languages, they all sucked. It is not all fault of the language though - writing SQL in SQL feels natural, but writing SQL in PHP/Go etc feels just plain weird, no matter how well the ORM libraries are defined. I also don't enjoy writing HTML in non-HTML languages - it just doesn't feel nice or natural. This is before getting into the other problems (having to learn the libraries, the libraries generating inefficient SQL etc). Maybe I am old and not hip, I dunno. Using ORMs is just annoying and unpleasant