>Neither is right nor wrong; My friend, aren't you being a little too nice, here? How much do we bend backward to accommodate these 'feelers'. IMO option these

>Neither is right nor wrong; My friend, aren't you being a little too nice, here? How much do we bend backward to accommodate these 'feelers'. IMO option these 'feelers' are children who never grew up and continue to be parasites on the 'adults' around them. Granted that for many, their traits may be biologically innate, but the 'adults' have only so much of goodwill to spare...