Typically you get that feedback, in a very clear and positive way. I've never felt like someone was putting me down when my doc was not answering the questions.

Typically you get that feedback, in a very clear and positive way. I've never felt like someone was putting me down when my doc was not answering the questions. The goal of a doc is not to show how smart you are. The goal is to expose the truth as "We" know it and expose it to critical feedback to dig deeper, or decide we have enough to make a decision.