Just stop being manipulative. Let's be honest, your son is in an age with many changes and now or in the next 2-3 years he'll start to watch porn and just in g

Just stop being manipulative. Let's be honest, your son is in an age with many changes and now or in the next 2-3 years he'll start to watch porn and just in general explore life. If you have doubts of how to do handle this situation, go see a psychologist, they will help you to comprehend that situation. Nobody really likes control and he'll likely have a hard time and even get into very bad behaviour if he figures out that everything he does you want to control and censor. Instead try to build a relationship of trust, that he can be open about the new challenges he has in life, about his love life and what he may share and want to discover and do in life. He isn't a part of you and he'll do whatever he wants, the earlier you accept this and try to support him, the better.