OP mansplained that her act was not "throwing a bottle of hot sauce at the speaker in the middle of his or her presentation." Regardless of her mansplanation,

OP mansplained that her act was not "throwing a bottle of hot sauce at the speaker in the middle of his or her presentation." Regardless of her mansplanation, in fact her act was "throwing a bottle of hot sauce at the speaker in the middle of his or her presentation." Imagine you're the principal of a middle school and you heard what happened in the auditorium. Are you going to give both kids detention, neither kids, detention, or one kid (which one?) detention?