Of course it’s not transactional, that’s why i said that it’s nice to have a good relationship with your parents even as a grown up. My only point is that it’s

Of course it’s not transactional, that’s why i said that it’s nice to have a good relationship with your parents even as a grown up. My only point is that it’s absurd to talk about “abandoning your children” when these children are close to and over 30!