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Sorry, but are we talking about finance or emotions? You're saying it's different in the US because of health care costs, but go on to say that she didn't revok
by Grustaf 5y ago
Sorry, but are we talking about finance or emotions? You're saying it's different in the US because of health care costs, but go on to say that she didn't revoke financial support, so finance seems a moot point.
With regards to emotional support, it sounds like her youngest child was close to 30, so I don't think that's a big issue. Of course it's nice to have contact with your mother even if you're 30, but it's a bit rich to suggest she "abandoned" her grown children. Presumably she discussed it with them first.
And most likely the kids married people that had at least one parent to get parenting advice from.
- MisterBastahrd 5y agoSince when has parenting been merely transactional? 30 year olds routinely get advice from parents as they progress through life. The entire world is largely better off for it. Wisdom is something best taken in small doses as required.
- Grustaf 5y agoOf course it’s not transactional, that’s why i said that it’s nice to have a good relationship with your parents even as a grown up. My only point is that it’s absurd to talk about “abandoning your children” when these children are close to and over 30!